Somya asked me the other day if you could have sex with someone, and then go back to being just good friends. When I got asked this a long time ago, I’d said no, without pause. This time, I paused. Because I’m not sure anymore. I’d have to have a detailed questionnaire to establish what sort of sex and what exactly ‘just good friends’ entailed. I have difficulty imagining that phenomenal sex could be ignored for being ‘just good friends’, as much as I can’t picture really close friends being untouched by discovered chemistry. Indifferent sex would make it easy to going back to the just friends, but then you’d never want to indulge again would you? What would indifferent sex do to a close friendship - Would it change the dynamics regardless? Probably would. So, good sex, but not sweaty, screaming, I’m going to die sex, could be a sociable thing between not so very close ‘friends’? I think it could. How do you qualify your friends though? Which ones are safe enough to sleep with without skewing the friendship? Hmmm, I feel a weighted average matrix score sheet coming on… should be able to tweak it for inflation
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